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Postby cyprusgeoff » Tue Jun 30, 2009 4:01 pm

I still don't understand the point of this thread??

Perhaps I'm on the wrong planet today.
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Postby Hazza » Tue Jun 30, 2009 5:14 pm

Wait for it Geoff. Won't be long before a "sex before marriage" speech comes from him...
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Postby baba » Wed Jul 01, 2009 10:14 am

so we are looking for firini answer, what your opinion aftre all
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Postby Hazza » Wed Jul 01, 2009 2:55 pm

My opinion is that I love sex......is that enough love??
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Postby firni » Wed Jul 01, 2009 6:11 pm

With sex we can satisfied for just some moments,, but our soul willbenot relax.Love makes us satisfied.and sex with love is performed by deep of heart n soul,,,beucse love is life .too much sex make us more sick And we are remain thirsty. but Love give us relaxion,,,
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Re: sex need love

Postby Sega » Wed Jul 01, 2009 7:32 pm

firni wrote:is sex enjoyable without love???without love feelinsg can sex make us satisfied.


Yes, but only in a selfish self-absorbing manner. First comes love, and then should come sex, if things are done the other way around you risk hurting people. Ideally if you love somebody, truly love them, you should marry them.

Sex without love, is similar to eating a sandwich or your favorite food. You love it, but if it falls on the floor, you will simply get another one. Once you have ate to the point were you are not hungry, it has little use. Think about it, you don't love the person, you just love having sex with that person. So sex is enjoyable without love, just in the wrong way.

Love does not happen overnight either, love which happens overnight is not pure love, simply bruised egoism, giving one superiority over you as a self-being.

But as already mentioned, love is love, and sex is sex, but them together and you have marriage.
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Re: sex need love

Postby pegaso » Thu Jul 02, 2009 9:51 am

Sega wrote:
firni wrote:is sex enjoyable without love???without love feelinsg can sex make us satisfied.


Yes, but only in a selfish self-absorbing manner. First comes love, and then should come sex, if things are done the other way around you risk hurting people. Ideally if you love somebody, truly love them, you should marry them.

Sex without love, is similar to eating a sandwich or your favorite food. You love it, but if it falls on the floor, you will simply get another one. Once you have ate to the point were you are not hungry, it has little use. Think about it, you don't love the person, you just love having sex with that person. So sex is enjoyable without love, just in the wrong way.

Love does not happen overnight either, love which happens overnight is not pure love, simply bruised egoism, giving one superiority over you as a self-being.

But as already mentioned, love is love, and sex is sex, but them together and you have marriage.


Love then sex? Wow. You must be in your sixty.
It is so simple all of you here.
You meet someone, and if you like each other in some way you try also sex. If all goes well, then love can grow in time. If not, you go to the next.
Imagine you love someone and when you will have sex it turns out to be so tasteless. What will you do then? Find a sex partner to calm your mistake.
Hence the so high rate of divorces here.
But its all your choice what to do. You can simply follow your parents advice who they all know so much, yea... :) Maybe they can find for you your mate :) .. and love will come after as they say... :)
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