"believe that a man and a woman in order to be really good friends they have to go throught the erotic process firstly"
FACT: me and my boyfriend broke up and said we should stay friends. We were indeed friends form more than a year since we broke up. Now he wants a new relationship with another woman and i can't stay as his friend. I still have feelings for him and i can't stay and watch him having a new relationship.
I have a male friend but he is my friend because he will never eroticly atract me.
Friendship between a man and a woman.....think its possible?
by Maria28 » Thu Dec 15, 2005 12:07 pm
dms007 wrote:so lets say two persons love and one of them dies or they get seperated. so you say that the other person should not fall in love every again because it should be given to only one person?
dms is exaggerating as usual.
Yes, people can fall in love 2,3,5-10 times but not 100 and not with several people at the same time.
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by Maria28 » Thu Dec 15, 2005 12:09 pm
marnic, did you have any other relationship after him?
You are still in love with him but you should move on. Find somebody else and after a while you will not have such kind of feelings for your ex. Then maybe you will be able to see him as a friend.
You are still in love with him but you should move on. Find somebody else and after a while you will not have such kind of feelings for your ex. Then maybe you will be able to see him as a friend.
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by dms007 » Thu Dec 15, 2005 12:21 pm
maria is contradicting herself...........
if it can be given to only one person as you say then how do you explain fall in love 2 3 5....
if it is really true love the person should spend the life in the memory of the other person? would you do that?
and what difference does it make if there are 100 at the same time?
by your explanation 100 or 2 does not matter.....
That would be more like true love....love never dies or fades away.....
what you say maria is not love, how can you forget and move on when you have loved someone truly? even if they were not worthy of it, you love for them would not and should not go away, if it was really love.
so it really does not make a difference if you fall in love 5-6 times at different time or i fall in love with 100 at the same time
The kind of love we are talking about can be given only to one person if it is true!
Yes, people can fall in love 2,3,5-10 times but not 100 and not with several people at the same time.
if it can be given to only one person as you say then how do you explain fall in love 2 3 5....
if it is really true love the person should spend the life in the memory of the other person? would you do that?
and what difference does it make if there are 100 at the same time?
by your explanation 100 or 2 does not matter.....
i can't stay as his friend. I still have feelings for him and i can't stay and watch him having a new relationship
That would be more like true love....love never dies or fades away.....
what you say maria is not love, how can you forget and move on when you have loved someone truly? even if they were not worthy of it, you love for them would not and should not go away, if it was really love.
so it really does not make a difference if you fall in love 5-6 times at different time or i fall in love with 100 at the same time
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by Maria28 » Tue Dec 20, 2005 1:58 pm
so it really does not make a difference if you fall in love 5-6 times at different time or i fall in love with 100 at the same time
For me it makes. How many people do you know that they didn't fall in love when they were 13-15? How many of them get married and stay together with their first love?
Falling in love again after a failed relationship is something very OK. Having several lovers at the same time it is not.
I didn't have any other relationships after him. I know that i still love him and so does he.
How do you know about his feelings?
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by dms007 » Tue Dec 20, 2005 2:25 pm
during teens it is not love. it is merely attraction to the opposite sex, more like an infatuation. just due to the surge of hormones in the body.
it is ok to have several lovers at the same time, it is not wrong, it is quite a natural thing as long as all the lovers are being treated equally.
it is ok to have several lovers at the same time, it is not wrong, it is quite a natural thing as long as all the lovers are being treated equally.
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by Angel Eyes » Tue Dec 27, 2005 5:19 pm
Marnic, I feel for you girl, but, you really have to try and move on with your life, it seem's your X boyfriend is doing so.....Go out with your friend's and meet new people.....I know it is hard, trust, I know...And you will hate me for saying this but is IS true....time is the best healer....I wish you all the best and hope this New Year is better for you 
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by Mikros » Tue Dec 27, 2005 6:02 pm
Time cures everything Marnic, believe me it's true . As Angel Eyes said above, try not to think about him, hide everything about him ( or throw them in the bin if you prefer! 
) and just go out with your friends, have fun , get a few drinks (if you are above 18! ) and in time you will be ok. But be open to other boys to approach you. Don't lock them out of you, as this will not do anything good in this "cure".
) and just go out with your friends, have fun , get a few drinks (if you are above 18! ) and in time you will be ok. But be open to other boys to approach you. Don't lock them out of you, as this will not do anything good in this "cure".- Mikros
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