angelsaska wrote:All i wanted was some HELP not a lecture.
Get Real! wrote:The moral of this story is that people (especially women) must strive to become independent just in case it doesn’t work out with the person they’re with.
Independence is about having a set of wheels (even an old banger), and a source of income (no matter how small it is) so that your partner cannot dominate and abuse you.
Independence will boost your confidence, widen your options, and encourage respect from others including your spouse.
It’s unfortunate that those lacking the above fundamentals are often victims of abuse by power hungry arseholes who have no respect for the vulnerability of an abandoned wife/house keeper.
Encourage your daughters to become independent and never fall for men’s shallow promises of being “looked after” and shit like that because nothing lasts forever and they could be left out in the street!
The best person to look after you is… you!
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