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[andri_cy]

Actually I didn't open it. I replied to what rulla said right above me.
I am not sure I could do an open marriage deal myself, but I don't see how it would be anyone else's business if the people involved both agreed to do it. I just believe it would kind of defeat the purpose of a marriage as a commitment in whole. Like Rulla said, in the end someone will get hurt and it wont be pretty. If people want to have sex with more than one person, then why commit. Have your fun first, whether you be a man or a woman and then marry-or don't marry at all. No need to desecrate the institution of marriage. My personal opinion is that maybe new-found things like "open marriages" is what is going on with couples and divorce nowadays.

[Kikapu]

actually kikapu,(if you dont mind asking) do you live far from the german border ?

Not at all. The closest crossing point into Germany is Waldshut. It's about 45-60 minutes from where I am. How far are you from there.?

[Kikapu]

[I consider my self to be very "modern" "liberal and open minded person.

So, what is wrong with open marriages?

So Mickleham, a "Man for all Seasons", how is your "Open Marriage" working out. Perhaps we can all learn a great deal from a man who is very accepting of such practices. Tell us Mickleham, do you have one of those "waiting number" dispensers in your bedroom for the visiting man to have sex with your wife, while you're watching TV, or better still, preparing some "snacks" for those who's number hasn't been called yet for a visit to the bedroom.

Do you also need to take a number, or do you get to make "advance reservation", so that you don't miss your favourite TV show.?? We're all very curious to know just how you and your wife manage this. Do the neighbours talk, or do they get to pick a number also.??!!!

[cypezokyli]

with the train a little bit less than 3 hours.
which for germany, is ofcource quite a short distance.
i dont even know if i need a visa to enter switzerland

[Kikapu]

with the train a little bit less than 3 hours.
which for germany, is ofcource quite a short distance.
i dont even know if i need a visa to enter switzerland

If you have a EU passport, you do not need a visa. For all practical purposes, Switzerland plays the role as a EU member, but has the good sense, to stay out of it.

A 3 hour train ride, is like from Zürich to Geneva, or Zürich to München (Munich). I live very close to Zürich.

[Mickleham]

[I consider my self to be very "modern" "liberal and open minded person.

So, what is wrong with open marriages?

So Mickleham, a "Man for all Seasons", how is your "Open Marriage" working out. Perhaps we can all learn a great deal from a man who is very accepting of such practices. Tell us Mickleham, do you have one of those "waiting number" dispensers in your bedroom for the visiting man to have sex with your wife, while you're watching TV, or better still, preparing some "snacks" for those who's number hasn't been called yet for a visit to the bedroom.

Do you also need to take a number, or do you get to make "advance reservation", so that you don't miss your favourite TV show.?? We're all very curious to know just how you and your wife manage this. Do the neighbours talk, or do they get to pick a number also.??!!!

I do not know why my postings are going missing

But you know very well what i think of you. Scumbag. You made an assumption about a process for people with open marriages and i am now sure that you are talking from your own marriage experiences that is called first hand knowledge.

[Kikapu]

[I consider my self to be very "modern" "liberal and open minded person.

So, what is wrong with open marriages?

So Mickleham, a "Man for all Seasons", how is your "Open Marriage" working out. Perhaps we can all learn a great deal from a man who is very accepting of such practices. Tell us Mickleham, do you have one of those "waiting number" dispensers in your bedroom for the visiting man to have sex with your wife, while you're watching TV, or better still, preparing some "snacks" for those who's number hasn't been called yet for a visit to the bedroom.

Do you also need to take a number, or do you get to make "advance reservation", so that you don't miss your favourite TV show.?? We're all very curious to know just how you and your wife manage this. Do the neighbours talk, or do they get to pick a number also.??!!!

I do not know why my postings are going missing

But you know very well what i think of you. Scumbag. You made an assumption about a process for people with open marriages and i am now sure that you are talking from your own marriage experiences that is called first hand knowledge.

I was also wondering, why you never answer people, when you pose a question / accuse them of doing something. I have replied you several times, but we never hear from you. Now that you have, let go....

So, what is it that you're upset about Mickleham. You have made the claim that you're a "Modern" "Liberal" and "Open Minded" person regarding "Open Marriages" and as soon as I put your ass on the "hot plate", you start screaming "scumbag, scumbag". What is it with you, you only want to have sex with other men's wives and no other men to have sex with your wife. Is that your definition of "Open Marriage". Is it, you want to cheat, but the wife has to stay loyal to you. You want to be a Casanova to other men's wives, but others dare not touch your wife. So the bottom line is, you're not for an "Open Marriage" in your relationship, but you're with other peoples relationship.

[Mickleham]

Kikappu you are a piece of trush!

How would you know what a "modern" and a "liberal" is ?

You are an exile Cypriot deserter of your ethnicities cause (prodotis) who you choose to live abroad, yet you pretend that you know everything and anything about Cyprus.

Also you have chosen to cut and paste section of my posting so you can make it sound different.

Listen "low life trush" my first girl friend was a fine Turkish girl. which i respect greatly. we remain still very good friends after some any years.

So i have come very close to you family's relatives. So just be careful.

[Kikapu]

Kikappu you are a piece of trush!

How would you know what a "modern" and a "liberal" is ?

You are an exile Cypriot deserter of your ethnicities cause (prodotis) who you choose to live abroad, yet you pretend that you know everything and anything about Cyprus.

Also you have chosen to cut and paste section of my posting so you can make it sound different.

Listen "low life trush" my first girl friend was a fine Turkish girl. which i respect greatly. we remain still very good friends after some any years.

So i have come very close to you family's relatives. So just be careful.

Mickleham,

I'm beginning to think that,

1...That you're not playing with a full deck,

2...That your elevator does not go all the way to the top floor,

3...That you're a lamb chop short of a mixed grill.

4...That you have few bricks (yellow) missing from a complete wall.

If you're going to Americanise your words, then it is only polite to say it correctly...it's "piece of trash" and "low life trash".
I'm not the one who has made the claim to be the "Modern" man, so please you tell us, what a modern man is.

If you can find another city that is more "Liberal" than San Francisco, I would like to know about it. I've lived half my life there, have you.?

Yes, I was exiled, thanks to you and your likes, so next time you're in Cyprus, you should say a prayer, and ask for forgiveness, for me having to "desert" my country. Still, I manage to be more informed than you on the Cyprus issues. Perhaps you should spend less time in Australia.

So you went out with a Turkish Girl, which I have never done. Does that suppose to prove anything, and if so, what.? As far as being almost "close to my family", I'm sure you were no worse off than, the other looser from Turkey, who has been "evicted" from the family recently.

Keep at it Mickleham, perhaps one of these days, your posts may actually have some substance to them.

[Mickleham]

Kikappu....what makes you thing that you are more aware and informed from such a distance?

Your awareness is only media driven! We are here working and dealing with the issues everyday as one unit, until a political compromise is found!.

There are about 10000 Cypriots of Turkish decent living here in Lemeso in harmony with so many other nationalities.

Cyprus is a multinational and cosmopolitan nation.

I am here in my country Cyprus! Wake up for gods sake.

I guess, you are probably a traitor that you are afraid coming back home.