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[pantheman]

People who attend such parties are usually people that know what they want. The typical entrance fee of 80 quid to cover catering / drinks / and the morning clean up, and this fee is normally enough to deter anyone who has come hoping to just see people in the nude eating tea and cookies.


Love you all, Janexx

For 80 quid love , you could just go down to ayia napa or kings cross for less than half that. Surely if there is money in it , you are obviously looking to make it. Why don't you just call is a brothel instead of disguising it as a swingers, cos that what it is.

You are advertising a business, pure and simple. Don't matter how you cut it, it comes down to the same thing, pay 80 quid, get to shag a different person end of.

Immoral earnings is what it is called in law.

Please lets have some decent posts on this forum and not make it a advertising forum for immoral stuff.

[miltiades]

Niki , if you were hanging upside down covered in paint you would not fancy dangling at all !
""Well if Michaelangelo's proportions are anything to go by- no worries - they are hardly dangling at all! ""

[andri_cy]

Swinging is great fun for all those who enjoy it, and when we all have our clothes off, it tends to be easier to relax with each other because designer labels are forsaken in nudity.

Swinging is not just for taking clothes off and sit around and have tea and cookies, is it.??

Being in a "natural" state can be fun, by feeling free. I did this, while sailing in warm climates, away from land and in the Ocean. There were 4 of us, 2 guys and 2 gals, and were naked most of the time. Then it was just me and 2 girls for few months. Everyone totally comfortable. Just had to be careful, when winching in the ropes, that body parts did not get in the way....Ouch.

So please tell us, the physical and emotional involvement of bunch of people, with friend or strangers, when you're not having Tea and Cookies. I don't need to know all the details, just the basics will do.

Apparently as I have found out recently my mother in law and her ex husband used to swing. They would go to bars together and they would find a couple and exchange partners. It ended up in divorce because the husband got obsessed with another woman. Now somehow they are back together-married on xmas eve and they proclaim they have learned their lesson. I sure hope so.
Personally I do not think I could sleep with anyone but my husband. If I were ready to step out, I would get a divorce because for me it would mean the marriage is over. I guess at 29(just turned yesterday) I am way to conservative

[Niki]

Niki , if you were hanging upside down covered in paint you would not fancy dangling at all !
""Well if Michaelangelo's proportions are anything to go by- no worries - they are hardly dangling at all! ""

Maybe they were a bit cold as well??

[miltiades]

Swinging or otherwise there comes a time in your life that certain activities that were once the highlight of the day or night , somehow seize to be the ultimate pleasure , mostly replaced by less arduous activities involving mostly a bottle of good wine .Never dreamed that the pleasure derived from a good Claret would be such a phenomenal experience.

[jane12]

Funnily enough, I had anticipated that the mention of money would bring more people into the forum. But that's a good thing.

The entrance fee covers food, drink, and morning clean up. It's 40 quid per person, and when you have people in for 7 maybe 8 hours eating and drinking, I can assure you that there's not sufficient funds to deem it a 'business'. Taking this a point further, if it was free to get in, then of course it would just end up open to all - and at a huge cost to us.
We're running a brothel... no actually, because you see no-one is selling sex or sexual services. Going to Agia Napa or King's cross (he's obviously been to both) IS selling / buying sexual services, and your 'Pleasures??" will be over in a very short space of time, usually in a very dirty, and unsafe room where you also are likely to get robbed or mugged.
Participants in such activities can suffer long term psycholgical damage... well the same applies for drinking, smoking, being bullied at school, - the list is endless, but the key is simple, and applies to all - If it's not for you keep out!

Interseting to hear all views though, keep them comming.

Jane.

[GorillaGal]

i am glad to see this thread back, and no one getting attacked unecessarily. and with no politics, as it was originally intended! good luck to you, jane12. i find it facinating.

[Sotos]

As long people are doing what they are doing in their own private places and what they do is not harming anybody else then I think it is their right. If they can enjoy their life better in that way then why not? But I wouldn't do such thing. If I wanted to fuck around and I didn't mind if my wife was doing the same then why get married??? Why not just stay single and participate in orgies? And Happy Birthday to you Andri!!!

[kypros]

what a sad couple

[GorillaGal]

have you tried it Kypros? you should not pass judgment on someone else unless you have been in their shoes. i know a couple who swings to some extent, they seem to be very happily married. it is not up to me to decide what is right or wrong for someone else. i have a hard enough time making decisions about my own life.
some people might consider you a sad person for not being so open minded to accept it. or even try it for that matter.