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Might!!!

[dms007]

So you actually slept with your female friends, Fred? and you are still able to have a normal relationship with them except for the exceptional days

[Fred@Codies]

I have yes, then we realised it wouldnt work with us in a relationship,
I am still friends with this lady! I look out for her now with regards men!

I would say we are close friends, (and I havent slept with her again so we arent that close, before some funny guy adds that!)

[Cyprusist_]

Never... Definitely NEVER

[BirKibrisli]

Hello,everyone,I am relatively new in this forum,still trying to find what's what.But this topic is one that interests me. I think women are able to be just friends with men without much problem.Men however find it more difficult depending on how "macho" or sexist they are.If a man is sexist he sees every female as a potential lover,hence true friendship is impossible.If on the other hand a man is gay,then he can definately be just friends with women.And I think there are a few shades of grey in between, where a man very much in love with a woman can be just friends with another woman.It also depends on what generation you are from.The up and coming generation where I live ( Australia) seems much more relaxed with the opposite sex.

[Fred@Codies]

Spot on!,
(Iam a shade of Grey!!)

[hincyprus]

All I can quote is my own experience, as a married mam.. I actually relate better on a friendship basis with women than men.

I often find conversation more interesting and stimulating with my female friends than my male friends.

I am a normal hetrosexual male but to talk about sex day after day with the guys drives me bonkers. At least with my female friends we seem to have normal chats or discussions, and of course the odd bit of gossip as is a womans want !!

I have never slept with a female "friend" and I feel quite normal about it.

On msn I speak to many women and as I am of the older generation I am treated as an "uncle" by many who relieve their emotions and problems without inhibitions. Maybe its the fact that they all live in larger countries such as the UK or the States and I am tucked away safely on this island.....They know I will probably never , ever meet them.

Anyway....thats it, so come on girls if you can chat well and interestingly get in touch.

I would just add that my wife finds it very strange that I know so many women on msn but few blokes..........

H

[Svetlana]

Hi Howard

I will now explain to her (your wife)!

Lana

[BirKibrisli]

Let me tell you about a personal experience.Years ago when I met the most significant other in my life she said I had a choice:"You can be my friend or my lover,but not both".I was her lover for 12 years and true enough never became her friend.She had many male friends during our time and as far as i know never cheated on me. But being just her "lover" became very tiring by the end of 12 years,and not for the reasons some of you might imagine! She had more in common with her "friends" than with me,and this after a while became a burden for me which eventually led to our breaking up.Now can anyone shed a light on this woman's psychology,because I still can't figure out why she could only have friends or lovers.

[hincyprus]

the day you manage to fathom a womans logic.........write a book....you will make millions......then I will be your friend.

thats male logic !!!!!!

H