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[MARIKKOU]

"Pussy scanning" is been part of thes issues for generations.

Even i (being an example) have done that once or twise.

[reportfromcyprus]

In my opinion, a lot of men completely miss the signals that women send that initiate sex.

If non-verbal and non-touch cues were included, the balance would change from 90-10 to 60-40, I think.

But a lot of time, they are subtle signs and include things like a look or coming closer than usual into personal space. Looking down instead of directly at you, etc etc. Even serving someone's dinner in a certain way can be a pass.

[GG]

"Pussy scanning"

Now if I'd have said that I'd have been grilled alive!!!

[reportfromcyprus]

Why?

I don't think anyone's grilled you for looking

The issue is cheating, here, not looking, scanning, dreaming, fantasising or other intangibles, but the physical action of cheating.

[GG]

I have big issues with my doris because I can't help looking.

She keeps catching me out and beating me but I can't stop.

Is it so bad that i look????

[reportfromcyprus]

It's not so bad that you look.

It's so bad that you don't look at her in that way when you're together in public

Try focusing only on her when you're together, it will be rewarding. As you very well know, women respond brilliantly to attention

I mean, for heaven's sake!

[Kikapu]

In my opinion, a lot of men completely miss the signals that women send that initiate sex.

If non-verbal and non-touch cues were included, the balance would change from 90-10 to 60-40, I think.

But a lot of time, they are subtle signs and include things like a look or coming closer than usual into personal space. Looking down instead of directly at you, etc etc. Even serving some one's dinner in a certain way can be a pass.

So, Now we have to be also "mind readers". Come to think of it, the waitress in the restaurant I was eating the other day, dropped my fork on the floor. I bet that was a signal that I missed!!!. She could have said, "would you like a another fok" but no, I was suppose to read her mind.!!! She had an accent, I think she was Italian.!!

[reportfromcyprus]

If she'd dropped the fork on your head maybe you'd have gotten the hint.

It worked for Newton.

Jeez.

[andri_cy]

Any given day, men can't help but look at a good looking woman with nice body and sex appeal. Within a few seconds, she will get a complete "cat scan" from top to bottom, and back to top again, with sexual thoughts dominating his mind. This will happen dozens times a day, and it doesn't matter if the wife or the girl friend is with him or not. It only takes few seconds, but he will do it. It is his "male sexual genetic blue print", and there's no escaping it. But man will also have sex on the mind, even if there're no women around to look at. They have their memories, some with the women they are with now, and some with their past experiences. It's a small wonder, how men can get anything done, when preoccupied by his "sexual blue print" that dictates his sexuality.

Oh please...I cat scan guys 24/7 . I dont think looking is cheating. I dont even think fantasizing about it is cheating. I believe cheating is when you actually go ahead and do it-that is if your partner disapproves. I dont think men are the only ones with sex on their minds. (And, ladies, lets be real now and admit that if a man is cheating most probably he is cheating with an OTHER woman so we cant be only judging men.) Once a while back I used to have this guy I worked closely with that I found attractive. I would never of course sleep with him as I am married, but I felt so bad, that I told my husband. He laughed at me... . The point is, I dont believe men or women have less or more temptations than the other. I dont even think at this point that they react to temptations differently. I think that sometimes women are unfair to men about that. I know more guys that were burnt by a woman than the other way around.

Andri_cy, do you ever sleep, if you're "Cat Scanning" 24/7 ??!!!! The above is not about cheating, it's about males appetite for women and sex.

I know you're a mother and a wive, but I would like to know from you, if you're willing to do it, and if you don't, that's fine also, whether you can tell us from your view or lets just say from women's view in general, just what do you get out of "Cat Scanning" a male, and what does that do to you. What are your thoughts during "Cat Scanning". Any information, intimate or not will be very useful to know, so that I can compare it with men's views.

Tsk I am a mother and a wife, but I am not dead. When I scan someone (which just so you know I do freely even my husband is there because my eyes are not married), sometimes to be blunt I am thinking about how hot they are, if they are good in bed and I rate them according to how possible it is that I would sleep with them lol-yes yes I know I said I wouldnt and I mean it but its a game. There was this guy once I told my husband "oh my god honey I would cheat on you with him". My husband's response was "i dont blame you I would sleep with him too". NO my husband is not bisexual but he knows how to appreciate good looks. It's only looking and I would rather do it in the open rather than try be sneaky. We all do it, the work is to not be further tempted by it.

[andri_cy]

In my opinion, a lot of men completely miss the signals that women send that initiate sex.

If non-verbal and non-touch cues were included, the balance would change from 90-10 to 60-40, I think.

But a lot of time, they are subtle signs and include things like a look or coming closer than usual into personal space. Looking down instead of directly at you, etc etc. Even serving someone's dinner in a certain way can be a pass.

I think it might be because women send mixed signals. On one hand we want to be equal and on the other we wont come outright with it. if a man wants to sleep with a woman he probably will say something like "wanna go back to my place?". If a woman wants to sleep with a man she does what? what are the signals? Are they the same for all women?