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[THE HIGHLANDER]

The most natural tried and tested bird puller is EYE TO EYE CONTACT AND BEING ABLE TO READ BODY LANUAGE stand or sit in a cafe, bar,club or anywhere with plenty of women around you within good eye contact range, now start looking round untill you catch one looking straight at you do make it obvious you caught her looking at you, continue your conversation with your mates laughing and generaly chilling out, give it a couple of minutes then have a look at her again, this time stare back two seconds longer then turn away but making sure definate eye contact was made between you both, continue the conversation with your mates then after a couple of minutes move away from them and stand at the bar for example as if your fed up with your mates then look at her again if shes still looking at you make eye contact and make a point at smiling at her, then slowly turn your head away but still standing on your own talking to knowone, finaly turn around and look straight at her and if shes still looking your nearly there so dont blow all your hard work, slowly walk to wards her smiling keeping full eye contact, introduce yourself and ask what her name is and start a slow casual conversation making her trust you and feeling at ease with herself in your company,then say i'll have to go get myself another drink and ask if she'd like one if she says no,then say i insist as its the least i can offer you for cheering up my night, when she says "yes ok then" which she will, then you have got to the final stage and have at least 10/15 minutes 1 to 1 in her company to make her yours so keep making her feel special and relaxed in your company and everything should just fall into place.
TIPS : You must be well groomed,nice shirt,trousers and clean polished shoes,Gold chain,bracelet,watch and no more than 3 gold rings (none of course on your wedding finger) Be confident but not over confident, a good aftershave Andron,Joop,Blue Jeans always work for me,if you smoke like me ask her first do you mind if i smoke, and make apoint of keeping your cigarette and smoke well away from her, make it sound like somehow fate has drawn you both together.

Finaly i'm not Casanova or Gods gift to women either,just a nice clean shaven,always well dressed happy go lucky bloke with a nice kind personality that is always willing to listen to people,never putting myself on a pedistal above anyone else.

[required]

That is good game and I can see it working for you. But for somebody who is nervous around women, he will go down in flames.

" Be confident". Confidence is based on success, and not the other way around. Succes is the starter. When you learned to drive a car, were you confident? Did you say: well, I'm such a good driver that I'll go on the racetrack and compete with all the rookies there".
Instead you should learn to be competent, confidence comes along with it.

"nice clean shaven,always well dressed happy go lucky bloke with a nice kind personality that is always willing to listen to people,never putting myself on a pedestal above anyone else."

This is why your plan works. You have the characteristics which make you attractive to women.

"introduce yourself and ask what her name is and start a slow casual conversation making her trust you "

If you would do this without having these characteristics (well groomed, confidence, humour, empathy), you would get blown out, and your ego will hate you for it.
After you gather all the strength to get over you anxiety(and maybe some alcohol to ease it), you go thinking "Yes, I'm going to talk to this girl! We'll be holding hands, making plans, happy as can be! Good times ahead!"
And then you get a big sign : "Access denied. You do not have the correct credentials!"

Girls can be very cruel to guys who don't get it. And they have to be, they do it as time management. Good looking girls get hit on 10 times per day at least. If they don't want to talk to you , they'll shut you off in 1 to 20 seconds.

So, the plan is great, but it only works for you. Congrats anyway, you have it easier than most men on this planet.

I seem to be returning to the crime scene much too often. I'll let the other people screw your brain, you have the leads to find the way now.

[THE HIGHLANDER]

REQUIRED :
It is not a game i play it happens every day in life at work,waiting in a suppermarket queue,just about anythere,the point is YOU have to look for it just like the female she is no different as shes looking all the time too,its human nature to look.
When i was a Joiner working on private contracts the amount of married woman i met that were bored with there husbands looking for a bit of quick fun was unbelievable but its when they want more and start to get serious then its "time to shoot the craw"
There is another way its a game i used to play with my mates we called it "taking sweeties af a bairn"which involves looking for the fatest,uglyest and even speckyest dame on the dance floor and pulling her.
As my auld mate Billy used to say even the fat ugly anes need to be loved !!!!!
Good luck in your quest for love because if you dont find IT as time passes it will eventualy find YOU and thats a promise !!!!!!

[G.Man]

its the old ForF rule...

Solid eye contact for 30 seconds and you will either Fight or F*&%

[THE HIGHLANDER]

Or there is the 5F rule too :

FIND THEM , FOOL THEM , FINGER THEM , F*CK THEM , FORGET THEM.

[GorillaGal]

highlander, you ar a pig and i hope no one listens to your "advice."

[THE HIGHLANDER]

highlander, you ar a pig and i hope no one listens to your "advice."

Come on Gorilla Gal it was only a bit of male banter,i though you might know me a bit better by now,you dont honestly think i personaly would do that to any female myself,i have to much respect for the opposite sex,after all a man with no woman is like having a "bicycle with no seat".

[GorillaGal]

i am glad you were kidding, but i still don't think that was funny.

[cankertoo]

Ok guys, it is just bad news that I would like to forget.

After the last post I made, I gave her lot of space and time, I did not do anything.
But all those time I was having eye contact whever she passed in front of me or I in front of her.
I was very sure that she was looking too or maybe I thought so.
So I met her at a party and she was seat at a table and I approached her. I said hi and I asked her if I could take the seat next to her. She said no, I tried talking to her but she was chasing me away.
Then I went away and after a long time I came to her, sat next to her and told her that she makes me sad doing this to me everytime, she told me she was happy. She asked to go away lest she should start hitting me. I just sat there and she got up and walked away. I grabbed her hand and told her dont go , I will go. So I left.

Two days later I told her I was sorry for talking my mind and I told her I should have realised she was not interested.

I sent her some flowers for Christmas, but she would not accept it.

So it is 'Last Christmas' for me now

[THE HIGHLANDER]

Hi there, sounds like to me she's a bampot and up her own arse,dont give her the satisfaction of an apoligy mate,just totaly ignore her and move on to pastures new,cause theres plenty more fish in the sea of love !!!!!!