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Is homosexuality wrong?

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Homosexuality is:

Perfectly normal. You wouldn't mind at all if your child was gay
6
19%
Natural anomaly. It is not gays fault. They should be treated without any discrimination
14
44%
Acceptable. But gays should not show off their 'gayness' especially in the presence of children
4
13%
Tolerable. They can do what they want in their own bedroom but they should act as normal people outside
2
6%
Wrong. It should not be illegal but they should not be accepted by society.
2
6%
Evil. It should be illegal. I don't like them!
2
6%
Better. We need more homosexuals!
0
No votes
OK for females wrong for males
2
6%
Ok for males wrong for females
0
No votes
 
Total votes : 32

Is homosexuality wrong?

Postby Sotos » Sun May 07, 2006 12:42 am

AT A TIME when much of Europe is striving to move forward in a Union embodying the refusal of all discrimination, Cyprus appears to be moving in the opposite direction.

Instead of showing a rise in tolerance, yesterday’s announcement of the results of a study into public opinion on homosexuality showed increasing intolerance of gays in the past few years.

More specifically, in 2001, 67 per cent of those asked said they thought gay sexual relationships were wrong. The figure remained the same in 2003. But in 2005 the number rose to 75 per cent, only to be exceeded in 2006, today reaching an alarming 80 per cent. Only three per cent of Cypriots categorically believed that being gay was not wrong.

As Lissandri Christoforou, member of the project, explained, the study covered a wide and equal range of social statuses. A total of 500 Cypriots were interviewed in their homes in all districts of the island, covering rural and urban areas.

Overall, the study showed that those who expressed the most negative feelings towards homosexuality were of little or no education, over 60 years old, from small or secluded communities and mostly from Paphos.

“It shows lack of culture when a nation does not accept homosexuality,” said Professor Theofano Papazisi, of the Aristotelio University of Thessaloniki at yesterday’s presentation. “Prejudice is an indicator of illiteracy, conservativeness and lack of interest in our fellow human beings and society in general; a society we expect to support us in our hour of need.”

“A society that accepts the unequal treatment of any of its members is a bad society,” Papazisi said.

And, she added, accepting homosexuality should not be seen as a favour to those who had suffered due to religious and political pressures, but as a means for homosexuals to obtain the rights the rest of society already have.

“Why are we so scared of homosexuals?” wondered Papazisi. “Why are we so afraid of allowing them to get married and adopt children?”

Concluding, Papazisi raised a well known theory: “Are homophobic people really just secret homosexuals?”

Ombudswoman Eliana Nicolaou and gay rights activist Alecos Modinos were also part of the project.

THE RESULTS

Asked what they thought about sexual relations between homosexuals, 54 per cent said it was always wrong, 26 per cent that it was mostly wrong, one in 10 said they didn’t mind, three per cent said it was rarely wrong and three per cent that it was never wrong.

The public’s opinion on whether people are born gay or influenced by their environment varied, with 24 per cent believing homosexuality is an inborn quality, 19 per cent that it was environmental and 57 per cent a mixture of both.

More than half of those asked, admitted to feeling uncomfortable around gay people (51 per cent), while 19 per cent said they felt very uncomfortable; 32 per cent said they felt relatively comfortable with it, and 15 per cent very comfortable. Mostly educated women and college students answered in the affirmative to this one. And it was mainly residents of the Paphos District who expressed their discomfort.

Six in ten admitted their opinions on homosexuality haven’t changed in the past few years, 27 per cent said they’d become more accepting but 15 per cent admitted their attitude towards gay people had got worse.

Fifty-eight per cent of the public said they would not like it if an important public figure was gay; 62 per cent would have a problem if it was their doctor, 44 per cent if it was their colleague, 75 per cent their friend, 51 per cent their neighbour, 86 per cent their child’s teacher, 93 per cent their child’s nanny and 84 per cent a close relative.

Only seven per cent said they agreed with gay marriages in Cyprus; 76 per cent said they disagreed with the introduction of a law legalising such weddings.

Eight in ten said they disagreed with gay couples adopting and raising children, mainly citing this would be a bad influence on the children and breed more homosexuality. But as Papazisi later pointed out, there are no reasonable grounds for such an opinion. “Homosexuals have heterosexual parents and so they obviously weren’t affected by their parents’ sexual preferences. So in the same trail of thought, why say gay parents will have a negative impact on the children they may adopt?”
Seven in ten Cypriots said they didn’t have any acquaintances that were gay. And out of the three that said they did, seven in ten said it was just an acquaintance, three in ten a friend, two in ten a colleague and seven per cent a relative.

When it came to answering hypothetical questions for their own children eleven per cent of parents said they would throw their son out on the streets if he told them he was gay. Three per cent said they would do so if it was their daughter. Sixty-eight per cent said they would try to change their son’s sexual preference and 69 per cent their daughter’s; 26 per cent said they would be hurt but would accept their son’s homosexuality; 18 per cent if it was their daughter. Only three per cent admitted they would have no problem with it, for both girls and boys.

Finally nine in ten said they wouldn’t like it if their child had a gay friend. Again most negative answers came from Paphos.


I don't mind gays. I don't mind gay marriages either. But gays adopting children is a bit too much I think. :roll:
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Postby Greek goddess » Sun May 07, 2006 1:29 am

At least the gay couple that adopt children love them and look after them unlike others that give birth to them only to abuse them later on.

Lets be honest they might not provide the ideal family environment but it is loving and that is the essential ingredient of a happy childhood.

Personally I rather have a gay couple raising a child than a series of fostering parents.
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Postby malaka » Sun May 07, 2006 2:02 am

Greek goddess wrote:At least the gay couple that adopt children love them and look after them unlike others that give birth to them only to abuse them later on.

Lets be honest they might not provide the ideal family environment but it is loving and that is the essential ingredient of a happy childhood.

Personally I rather have a gay couple raising a child than a series of fostering parents.

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Postby Greek goddess » Sun May 07, 2006 2:13 am

malaka wrote:
Greek goddess wrote:At least the gay couple that adopt children love them and look after them unlike others that give birth to them only to abuse them later on.

Lets be honest they might not provide the ideal family environment but it is loving and that is the essential ingredient of a happy childhood.

Personally I rather have a gay couple raising a child than a series of fostering parents.

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How can I enlighten you then?
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Postby dms007 » Sun May 07, 2006 4:39 am

I dont like them and I dont want them anywhere on earth.
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Postby unique_earthling » Sun May 07, 2006 7:22 am

[/quote]“It shows lack of culture when a nation does not accept homosexuality,” said Professor Theofano Papazisi, of the Aristotelio University of Thessaloniki at yesterday’s presentation. “Prejudice is an indicator of illiteracy, conservativeness and lack of interest in our fellow human beings and society in general; a society we expect to support us in our hour of need.”

dms sadly your ignorance and small mindedness comes out in one way or another in most of your posts about a range of subjects. So it is no surprise to me that you would say this. i would rather have the world be gay than someone who thinks like you on it. You have no ability to empathise or understand your fellow beings and so are seriously lacking in emotional intelligence. I can only think your own self esteem is very low, and surmise that your internal anger at life and people has been problematic throughout. Why do you hate people so much?
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Postby NeverSayGoodbye » Sun May 07, 2006 7:39 am

The Question here is somebody born gay or do they become gay?
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Postby TheCabbie » Sun May 07, 2006 7:54 am

dms007 wrote:I dont like them and I dont want them anywhere on earth.


On the basis I'm sure you wouldn't knock it unless you've tried it...Bad experience? :wink:

I seem to have conflicting views on some of the points raised, while I don't have any problems with Gay people and have mixed with them without any issues over the years I feel strongly that they shouldn't be allowed to foster or adopt children.

At least the gay couple that adopt children love them and look after them unlike others that give birth to them only to abuse them later on.


A bit like saying can I break your arm or your leg!

Neither is good or benificial to a child.
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Postby malaka » Sun May 07, 2006 9:05 am

NeverSayGoodbye wrote:The Question here is somebody born gay or do they become gay?


What do you think?
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Postby Greek goddess » Sun May 07, 2006 10:54 am

malaka wrote:
NeverSayGoodbye wrote:The Question here is somebody born gay or do they become gay?


What do you think?


You are born gay like you are born with blue or green eyes. It is in the DNA that defines a person.
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