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[shoushoucos]

Rule schmule!

Oh get over it. I don't mean RULE like a.... RULE - I mean in terms of the females I know the VAST majority of them have feelings for the people they have sex with, however, I know a TINY MINORITY of ladies (infact, just 2 to be precise) who are adamant that they can have sex (in the sense of the Sex and the City episode I mentioned) 'like men'. No feelings. No shitty guilty. No wondering if they'll call. Just sex.[/quote]

Dear shoushouccou!

You know a tiny minority. But you seem to know quite a lot about the subject

Are you talking from experience? If so then you are excused because perhaps you did not have enough experiences.

[sal]

You seem to think you know more.
So what qualifies you to be the authority?

[Maria28]

Oh get over it. I don't mean RULE like a.... RULE - I mean in terms of the females I know the VAST majority of them have feelings for the people they have sex with, however, I know a TINY MINORITY of ladies (infact, just 2 to be precise) who are adamant that they can have sex (in the sense of the Sex and the City episode I mentioned) 'like men'. No feelings. No shitty guilty. No wondering if they'll call. Just sex.

So it should be ok for guys because they can have 'just sex'? JUST? You are saying this as if it means nothing!

[NeverSayGoodbye]

You guys have lost me on this one.Im not sure who is supporting what any more!

[GG]

So it should be ok for guys because they can have 'just sex'? JUST? You are saying this as if it means nothing!

Well in a way JUST SEX is a term that is used when 2 people have sex where there are no emotions or strings attached. In a way it does mean nothing but obviously it means plenty if either party are already attached.

I think the problem is the act of sex is so closely and traditionally linked with love that a person (including me) becomes so hurt hear that the person they love is having sex with other people.

In any case I don't think men or women do enough to keep their partners entertained in the bedroom, people are too afraid to get out of the comfort zone. And I am not afraid to say that in the bedroom thats normally the wife, outside the bedroom its normally the man.

[Mickleham]

First of all i wish to welcome here again my maria28

Secondly i do agree with her view.

But i think women should get out of there shell and be more adventurous if they are to be compared with the more liberal european women.

[andri_cy]

Unfaithfulness brings social diseases, breaches of trust and legal action

Lets not forget STD's, broken homes, hurt children etc...

[andri_cy]

I know it sounds extremely sexist.

BUT. A couple that are apart for many many months may want to sleep around and its only fair that both should be allowed but a man can love his wife and while away on business sleep with many women and still love his wife. Most women are 'emotionally' attracted to a man before they sleep with him and so are more likely to have feelings and maybe make a decision to leave her husband. Am I wrong? Are you girl willing to sleep around with no strings attached? If so Dial 0800 GG GG GG.

I for one agree that I dont think I can sleep with someone I dont have feelings for. If I ever wanted to sleep with someone other than my husband that would signal the end of my marriage because it will mean to me that I am in love with someone else.

[GG]

I for one agree that I dont think I can sleep with someone I dont have feelings for. If I ever wanted to sleep with someone other than my husband that would signal the end of my marriage because it will mean to me that I am in love with someone else.

Bravo gori tallou, thats how it should be.

[andri_cy]

First of all i wish to welcome here again my maria28

Secondly i do agree with her view.

But i think women should get out of there shell and be more adventurous if they are to be compared with the more liberal european women.

So you wouldnt mind your wife sleeping around because that would allow her to be compared to the more liberal european women? I am sure that a lot of european men, that are finding out as we speak their wife has been screwing the plumber or the neighbor or whoever it might be, want to bite their wife's head off. I think everyone wants to have an exclusive of the person they love. That of course will happen if people are adventurous with their partners so they will not get bored and stray away.